Which dog breed to get?

I live in the UK if that makes any difference. Hi there! I’m looking to get a puppy for my 21st birthday or after and trying to figure out what breeds would best suit my lifestyle.

  • I wouldn’t say I like small dogs; I prefer at least a medium-sized dog.
  • The dog must be friendly and affectionate with me and my family, and fairly neutral in public.
  • Overall, I want a loving, friendly, but calm dog.
  • The dog needs to be good with young children (I have a 1-year-old), so no breeds that naturally herd, etc.
  • I live in a 2-bed house without a large yard, but I have local access to large fields and can walk multiple times a day.
  • I don’t mind dealing with shedding or drooling.
  • Occasional barking is fine, but I don’t want a dog that will annoy my neighbors with constant barking or howling.
  • I can dedicate as much time as needed for grooming.
  • Due to health reasons, I will always be home with the pup, except for grocery shopping, so the pup won’t be by themselves for long periods.
  • I have had dogs/puppies before, so this won’t be my first time.
  • I’m willing to train as often as needed.
  • If I go out, 9/10 times the pup will be brought along.

Based on the above points, I would love to hear any recommendations so I can research and see if I can meet their needs.

Boxer! They are good family pets and usually calm-natured. They might drool a bit, but not as much as some other breeds.

@Addison
Poodles are smart and easy to train, which is a plus!

If possible, adopt from a shelter. However, in the UK, many shelters don’t allow adoption if you have young children.

Niko said:
If possible, adopt from a shelter. However, in the UK, many shelters don’t allow adoption if you have young children.

Yes, that’s true. In the UK, most shelters won’t let you adopt if you have young kids.

@Pace
It’s hard to adopt in the UK unless you have the perfect setup—large garden, experience, and no young kids. Many people end up adopting dogs from overseas shelters.

I was going to suggest a working cocker spaniel until I saw you wanted ‘calm’—they are bundles of energy! But they are very affectionate.

Just remember, whatever breed you get, train them early. For example, don’t let a puppy jump on people or bark excessively because they’ll carry those habits into adulthood. Crate training is also essential even if you’re home most of the time.

@Spencer
Thanks for the advice! I love the idea of training them to grab a toy when the doorbell rings instead of barking.

A Rough Collie might be a good fit for you. Just be prepared for a lot of grooming because of their long hair!

Golden retrievers are great with families, very friendly, and easy to train. You might also like boxers—they’re incredible family dogs. Just make sure to provide enough exercise!

Indy said:
Golden retrievers are great with families, very friendly, and easy to train. You might also like boxers—they’re incredible family dogs. Just make sure to provide enough exercise!

I love Dogos, but unfortunately, they are a banned breed in the UK.

English Cocker Spaniel is another great option. They tend to fit your requirements.

Golden Retrievers fit everything you’re asking for. They’re loving, friendly, and great with kids.

A lot of what you’re asking for, like being good with children and not barking too much, depends on training rather than breed. Please keep in mind that a puppy and a 1-year-old can be quite challenging to handle together. You might want to consider waiting a few years until your child is older before getting a dog.

Mixed breeds can sometimes be the best fit for families. They tend to be more resilient and adaptable.

Check out the American Kennel Club’s (AKC) tool for narrowing down dog breeds: Dog Breeds - Types of Dogs (akc.org). I’d recommend starting with the non-sporting group. A poodle might be a good fit—good with kids, not too high maintenance in terms of exercise, and you can choose the grooming style.