Moving out and separating my cat from his brothers... worried about him

Hey folks! I need some advice on how to approach a move. I was with my partner for 5 years and we had three cats together. Two of them are brothers and belonged to my partner, and the third is a bit younger and belongs to me. We’ve broken up, and I’m moving out soon… I’m taking my cat, but I’m worried about breaking his heart by separating him from the other two. They’re not really bonded, but I’m still nervous. Any thoughts?

He might be a little sad for a few days. Cats usually freak out when they move anyway, so expect some weird behavior at first. When I moved, my super social cat hid in a cabinet crying for three days, but he came around! Just make sure to give him extra attention, and he’ll be fine. If he’s more attached to you, he’ll get through it.

@Phoenix
Thanks so much! This is what I was thinking, but it’s reassuring to hear someone else’s experience. I’ll definitely make sure he gets lots of love during the transition.

Totally agree with this. If he’s not really bonded with the other two, then it might even be easier for him! He’ll probably enjoy having all your attention. :blush:

Ripley said:
Totally agree with this. If he’s not really bonded with the other two, then it might even be easier for him! He’ll probably enjoy having all your attention. :blush:

Right? He loves being the center of attention, so I’m hoping he’ll be happy. Thanks for the support!

If you’re his person, and he’s not bonded with the other two, taking him is definitely the best option. It might take him a little time to adjust, but he’ll be okay. My cats took a few months to settle into a new place when we moved. Also, I went through a breakup recently, and even though my cats were mine, they were really attached to my ex. They cried and looked for him for a while but adjusted in time. Just give your kitty some extra care during the transition.

@Yan
Yeah, that’s a good point. I know he’ll probably be off for a while, but I’ll just keep reassuring him. Sorry to hear about your breakup too, but I’m glad your cats settled in eventually.