I’m in my third year of college and for the first two years, I commuted from home, living with my parents and my cat. I got my cat when I was 17 during a tough time, and we became inseparable. He would sleep with me every night, follow me around, and cuddle with me for over three years. This past year, I moved out to be closer to school, but I couldn’t bring my cat since pets weren’t allowed and I didn’t want to take him away from his home.
Now my parents say he cries a lot and acts out, claiming it’s because he’s sad I’m gone. I live about 30 minutes away, so I visit him every other week or once a month, but I’m busy with school and work. Sometimes I wonder if my parents are exaggerating to get me to visit more. I really miss him, and it breaks my heart to think he might be depressed. I want to help him feel better, but I’m scared he’ll forget me or not see me as his favorite anymore.
Help!