Is my cat depressed because I moved away?

I’m in my third year of college and for the first two years, I commuted from home, living with my parents and my cat. I got my cat when I was 17 during a tough time, and we became inseparable. He would sleep with me every night, follow me around, and cuddle with me for over three years. This past year, I moved out to be closer to school, but I couldn’t bring my cat since pets weren’t allowed and I didn’t want to take him away from his home.

Now my parents say he cries a lot and acts out, claiming it’s because he’s sad I’m gone. I live about 30 minutes away, so I visit him every other week or once a month, but I’m busy with school and work. Sometimes I wonder if my parents are exaggerating to get me to visit more. I really miss him, and it breaks my heart to think he might be depressed. I want to help him feel better, but I’m scared he’ll forget me or not see me as his favorite anymore.

Help!

I got a two-way camera that allows me to see and talk to my kitty. It helped me feel more connected, and I’ve had some cute moments with her even from afar!

It’s common for cats to feel the change when their owners move out. Try leaving some of your clothing with your parents for a familiar scent. It might help him feel more comfortable.

Consider getting your parents some toys or interactive games for him. Keeping him engaged might help reduce the acting out.

Cats are resilient. Even if he seems sad now, he will adapt in time. Just keep visiting, and he’ll remember how much he loves you!