I have been with my partner for 3 years, and she hates my dog. It’s become such a huge issue that we always argue about it. I get that not everyone is a pet person, but my dog is 16 years old and I’ve had her since she was a puppy. I’m not getting rid of her, and I don’t want to move out either. I’m just so tired of the constant fighting over this. Any advice on how to handle this situation?
That’s a tough spot to be in… Have you tried talking to her about why she feels that way? Maybe there’s a specific reason?
Honestly, if it’s causing this much drama, it might be time to reevaluate the relationship. Your dog deserves love and so do you.
Fin said:
Honestly, if it’s causing this much drama, it might be time to reevaluate the relationship. Your dog deserves love and so do you.
I know, it’s just hard. I’ve invested so much time in both my dog and my partner.
It sounds like your dog has been there for you way longer than your partner. Maybe have a heart-to-heart with her about how you feel?
You shouldn’t have to choose between them. Have you thought about some training or behavior tips for your dog? It might help ease the tension.
Honestly, it sounds like she’s being unreasonable. If she can’t accept your dog, is she really the right person for you?
Remi said:
Honestly, it sounds like she’s being unreasonable. If she can’t accept your dog, is she really the right person for you?
That’s what I’m starting to think too. I just want some peace without all this drama.
Have you considered a compromise? Maybe set rules for how they interact? It might help both of them feel a bit better.
Just a heads up, if you’re considering breaking things off, make sure you communicate clearly. You deserve to be happy without the constant fighting.
I feel for you. It’s tough when pets are involved. Maybe look into some relationship counseling? It could help both of you.