Today, we decided to put our family dog down. She was very special to me, and I stayed with her, petting and comforting her until she passed. However, I struggled to keep my emotions in check at the vet’s office: as soon as they administered the sedative, I started crying uncontrollably. Is this a common reaction? Do people usually wait until after the procedure or when the vet gives them a few moments with their pet before crying? I’m not great at hiding my emotions, so I didn’t realize I might be overdoing it until later.
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Yes, I worked with a young vet who cried every time she had to put a pet to sleep.
It is tough when you can’t avoid it, especially with long-time pet owners who are deeply attached to their animals. Though I’m not a vet, I’ve been present at several euthanasia appointments where everyone, including the family, ended up in tears.
Everyone handles the sadness of losing a patient in their own way. As long as the family is treated with respect, there’s no right or wrong way to grieve.
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As a CVT in emergency care, I do not always get to know our patients well, but we do form close bonds with pet owners. We have shared tears, hugs, and support as we get to know them and their pets. I think it’s wrong to have a policy against showing emotion. Clients actually appreciate when those caring for their animals express feelings. It shows empathy and compassion. In my role focused on client care, I’ve never heard a client complain when a vet shows emotion after losing a pet. They always speak positively about it.
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It’s completely normal to experience strong emotions when saying goodbye to a beloved pet. The veterinary staff understands the depth of this loss and will offer support as needed.
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Actually yes, it is normal to cry and feel emotional when your dog is being euthanized.