We have a 3-year-old Devon Rex. Since we got her, she does not ever stop meowing. She is given adequate playtime and attention, food, treats, you name it. We have tried ignoring her cries for weeks, and we’ve tried positive reinforcement to her rare silence. We’ve taken her to the vet to check for any medical conditions, and she has a clean bill of health. We were given a topical medication for anxiety that also does not work. We’ve tried calming collars and even a spray water bottle. Not a single thing has worked. Mind you, our other cat (Cornish Rex) is also very vocal, but only when it’s appropriate (chatting, playing, saying hi) whereas our Devon Rex just whines whenever. WHINES. A very LOUD and irritating cry for no reason. I truly cannot stand it anymore, but getting rid of her is not an option because my husband loves her so much. I, on the other hand, have grown to hate her because of her hyper-vocalization. Can anyone PLEASE offer some advice, anything at all? I am ripping my hair out and on the brink of deafening myself with Q-tips just so I don’t have to hear it anymore. Edit to add she is also spayed.
Have you tried harness training and then taking your cat on a long walk on a leash? My cat Shaker likes going on walks. It took her a few days to adjust to having a harness on. I had to buy a few different kinds to find one she didn’t hate. It’s fun to watch her being outside and exploring but safe on a leash. I’ll also walk my cat with one of my dogs some days. It’s just a suggestion for your cat and you to do. Some indoor cats get bored with walls when a cat let outside will walk and explore a good amount of area.
@Sky
That’s an interesting idea! I never thought about walking her on a leash. Do you think it would help with her vocalization?
Lior said:
@Sky
That’s an interesting idea! I never thought about walking her on a leash. Do you think it would help with her vocalization?
It might! Getting her outside and exploring could distract her and tire her out a bit. Just make sure she feels comfortable with the harness first.
Have you considered using interactive toys or puzzle feeders? Sometimes they need more mental stimulation to keep them occupied.
Xian said:
Have you considered using interactive toys or puzzle feeders? Sometimes they need more mental stimulation to keep them occupied.
I’ve tried some toys, but maybe I need to mix it up more. I’ll check out some puzzle feeders.
Sometimes, playing with them just before you leave can help. It can tire them out a bit and might reduce the meowing while you’re gone.
Lian said:
Sometimes, playing with them just before you leave can help. It can tire them out a bit and might reduce the meowing while you’re gone.
I’ll try that! Anything to help calm her down.
Have you thought about consulting a feline behaviorist? They might have some more targeted strategies for her behavior.
Drew said:
Have you thought about consulting a feline behaviorist? They might have some more targeted strategies for her behavior.
I haven’t, but it might be worth it. I just want some peace at home.
Maybe try to create a cozy space for her with her favorite blankets and toys. Sometimes a little comfort can help ease anxiety.
Mai said:
Maybe try to create a cozy space for her with her favorite blankets and toys. Sometimes a little comfort can help ease anxiety.
That’s a good idea. I’ll set up a little area for her to feel safe.