It sounds like you’re going through a really tough situation, and it’s completely valid to feel conflicted and overwhelmed. Caring for a high-energy dog, especially a shepherd mix, can be a big responsibility, and it’s okay to acknowledge that it’s more than you expected. You’re not alone in feeling this way—many people experience “puppy blues,” and it can be even harder when you’re juggling a demanding job and limited time for yourself.
One thing to consider is whether there are ways to adjust your routine or get some additional help. Would it be possible to look into doggy daycare, a dog walker, or even a trainer who can help with some of the stressors, especially during those exhausting weeks? Sometimes, having just a bit of extra support can make a big difference. If the cost is a concern, you might want to explore online communities where people share affordable or DIY training tips.
If you’re still feeling conflicted about keeping the dog, you may want to give yourself a little more time to process and evaluate if you can find a balance that works. But if it’s genuinely too much for your mental and physical well-being, rehoming can be the best choice for both you and the dog. It’s important to prioritize what’s best for both of you in the long run.
There are some great resources about the challenges of dog ownership and managing high-energy breeds that might help, including books like The Power of Positive Dog Training by Pat Miller or articles on understanding shepherd behavior. These could give you more insights into working with the dog’s needs.
In any case, don’t beat yourself up—everyone’s capacity is different, and it’s brave of you to recognize your limits.
If you adopted your dog from a shelter, it’s important to contact them and inform them about the situation as soon as possible. It’s better for the dog to return to a safe environment than to stay in a home that isn’t the right fit for either of you. A reputable shelter or rescue will understand that not every dog matches every family or lifestyle. When considering adoption again, please think about adopting a senior dog.
I once adopted a pit bull who was loving towards my immediate family but aggressive with strangers. We tried everything, including training and consultations with a dog psychologist, but ultimately, she wasn’t a good fit for us. We had to return her to the shelter, explaining the reasons and noting that she wasn’t child-friendly and would do best as the only dog in a quiet home. It was a difficult decision, but the shelter was very understanding. A few months later, we returned to adopt again, and that was eight years ago. The pit bull we adopted after her is still with us and is featured in my profile picture.
If you can locate a suitable family or rescue for him, feel free to rehome him.
I’ve fostered 100 dogs, and they don’t mourn their previous owners when they arrive with me, nor do they grieve for me once they’re adopted.
Additionally, if you’re looking for a laid-back companion to hang out with and teach tricks without a lot of stress, think about getting a Chihuahua or a Chihuahua mix for your next dog. They might look a bit rat-like, but they’re great and low maintenance in dog terms.
As someone in veterinary medicine, I prefer when people rehome an incompatible pet rather than forcing a situation that harms both them and the animal. In that case, no one benefits.
Do what feels right for you, but I wanted to touch on the part about “unexpected vet bills.” If you decide to keep your pup (or try a different breed later), think about getting pet insurance! It’s more affordable and offers better coverage if you get it when they’re puppies, as preexisting conditions won’t be denied. It has been a huge help for us during various pet emergencies, like swallowed items and chocolate consumption.
It’s completely fine to return the dog to the place where you adopted him. Caring for a dog can be a lot of effort! If you feel you can’t dedicate enough time to a young dog, it’s perfectly acceptable to recognize that and let him go.
It seems like this situation isn’t ideal. Are you in or near Texas? I could check if my ex and his mother might be able to foster or adopt him. They live in the countryside and have a German Shepherd and a Pit Bull.
Well done on making the decision so quickly! A 6-month-old pup should be relatively easy to rehome. I have a half-bred German Shepherd and his 6-month-old son, and I’ve made the time for them. I knew that if I got a GSD, whether pure or mixed, I would need to step up my efforts. Best of luck! You’re making the right choice; that breed, like many others, needs a lot of attention.
We received our third dog as a surrender from his previous owner, who couldn’t provide the time and attention he needed, leaving him in a kennel for up to 12 hours a day. Recognizing this was unfair, she contacted our neighbor, who referred us. We agreed to foster him, depending on how he got along with our two other dogs. Fortunately, they bonded right away, and we’ve never regretted our decision! It takes courage to admit when you can’t meet your dog’s needs. You’re not failing if you choose to give him a chance at a happier life with someone else.
I discovered my two dogs on a website called Home to Home, which is a free platform for rehoming pets. You can post about your pet in your local area. Best of luck!
German shepherds can be quite challenging during their first year, behaving like obnoxious teenagers for a time. However, they eventually grow into incredible dogs. If you stay committed, the experience can be very rewarding. Of course, do what feels right for you, but be sure to thoroughly screen any potential new owner to ensure they will provide proper care.