So, I’m facing a really tough decision. We have a 15-year-old schnoodle who’s been having a rough time. His legs are super shaky, he seems to be in pain, and he has accidents almost daily now. Plus, he can’t get groomed anymore because of all these age bumps and tags. Sometimes he falls going up the stairs, but then other days he’s running up like he’s a puppy again. He’s also partially blind and deaf, but I can still see that spark in his eyes. It makes me think he’s still got that puppy energy in there. I keep second-guessing myself about this decision, worrying that I might be ‘murdering’ my dog. I want to remember him in a good way, but the constant accidents are really weighing on me… not that I hate him or anything.
I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It’s a tough call, but remember you’re doing this out of love for him. It hurts to see them suffer.
Piper said:
I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It’s a tough call, but remember you’re doing this out of love for him. It hurts to see them suffer.
Thanks, I appreciate that. It’s just hard to see it that way sometimes, y’know?
I went through a similar situation last year with my dog. I felt guilty too, but it helped me to focus on the quality of life he had. It sounds like you’re really aware of what he’s going through.
Rory said:
I went through a similar situation last year with my dog. I felt guilty too, but it helped me to focus on the quality of life he had. It sounds like you’re really aware of what he’s going through.
Yeah, I try to keep that in mind. It’s just hard to balance out the good memories with the struggles.
It’s so important to think about his happiness right now. If he’s in pain, then letting him go might be the most loving choice you can make.
Bowie said:
It’s so important to think about his happiness right now. If he’s in pain, then letting him go might be the most loving choice you can make.
True, but it still feels wrong. I just want to make the right decision.
I feel for you. The mixed emotions are totally natural. Sometimes the hardest decisions are the most loving ones.
Fin said:
I feel for you. The mixed emotions are totally natural. Sometimes the hardest decisions are the most loving ones.
Thanks for the understanding… it helps to know I’m not alone in feeling this way.
Just remember to celebrate the good times you had together! Maybe take him on one last special outing before Wednesday?
Zade said:
Just remember to celebrate the good times you had together! Maybe take him on one last special outing before Wednesday?
That’s a great idea. I’ll definitely do something special for him.