I’ve got a dog that’s about 10-11 months old. For the last few months, my family has struggled with how excessively energetic he is, to the point where it’s become tough to manage at times. At first, we kind of brushed it off, but then it turned serious when the dog started to attack my mom out of the blue, mainly when my sister or I were around. I did some research online and found info about how dogs can be territorial or fearful. There was a day when things got really concerning, and he lunged at my mom. I missed that moment because I wasn’t there, so I wasn’t sure if it was playful or aggressive since I generally deal with that behavior. We ended up scolding him pretty heavily because that’s not something he can do, especially to my mom. This has happened a couple of times now. After this, my mom got paranoid and started to be scared of the dog. At one point, she asked us who we would choose: her or the dog. I love my mom with all my heart, but this dog feels like my son. He’s my emotional support and my best friend. Now, they’re talking about giving him away, and I’m just at a loss for what to do.
Have you guys tried actually training the dog? Dogs don’t just know how to behave; they need to be taught that stuff. Scolding doesn’t really help much. If you’re not willing to put in the effort to train him, it’s probably best to either start training now or consider rehoming him.
@Uma
Yeah, I know that’s a good point. Training seems really important but it feels overwhelming to tackle right now.
Clove said:
@Uma
Yeah, I know that’s a good point. Training seems really important but it feels overwhelming to tackle right now.
I get that. Just remember, if he’s not trained, the issues will just keep piling up and it’ll be harder on everyone.
It sounds like nobody has really taught this pup how to behave properly and that’s super unfair to him. If he’s not trained, he’s probably acting on instincts. It’s kind of like asking someone to do a task without giving them the right tools. People are gonna get frustrated regardless.
Is anyone exercising the dog enough? That could really help with all that pent-up energy he has.
Darcy said:
Is anyone exercising the dog enough? That could really help with all that pent-up energy he has.
My dad takes him on rounds around the house while I’m at school, and when I get back, I usually spend a good hour and a half with him outside, sometimes with my sister. I’m thinking of extending that time to see if it helps.
@Clove
That sounds promising! Maybe adding another half hour could help burn off more energy.
If you can’t give him enough exercise and proper training, it might honestly be in his best interest to find him a new home where he can thrive. I know how much you care for him, but he might not be happy in his current situation.
@Shawn
That’s tough to hear, but I know it might be true. I just don’t want to lose him if it can be avoided.
Clove said:
@Shawn
That’s tough to hear, but I know it might be true. I just don’t want to lose him if it can be avoided.
Totally get that. Just make sure to really evaluate if you can commit to the time and training he needs.
Honestly, if he’s becoming reactive, that’s a big issue. You’re gonna need to dedicate a lot of time and possibly some money to training. It’s way more than just a few tricks. Check out resources like r/reactivedogs for some solid advice.
@Kieran
I’ve been looking for more training tips and resources. I’ll check that out.
Clove said:
@Kieran
I’ve been looking for more training tips and resources. I’ll check that out.
Great! The more you can learn about managing his energy and behavior, the better for both of you.
Definitely look into getting him professional training. It could really help both you and the dog communicate better. Plus, exercise is super important. Even a little extra walk goes a long way!