How can I convince my parents to let me get a dog?

TL;DR: I really want a dog, specifically a pug, but my mom is worried that after we get one, I won’t take care of it, just like other kids she knows. She’s seen how often kids beg for a dog but then stop taking responsibility after a short time, leaving the parents to handle everything. I’ve been trying to prove that I can take care of a dog by doing more chores around the house. My dad is okay with it as long as I take full responsibility, but my mom is still hesitant. What should I do?

Respectfully, you should wait to get a dog until everyone in the household is on board.

How old are you? Where are you getting the dog from? Who is paying for the dog, its food, vet bills, and other expenses? Have you ever had to take care of a pet before? Who is going to handle the training and cleaning up after the dog? If you’re still young, it’s best to wait until you have your own place.

Everyone in the house has to agree to getting a dog and caring for it. A pet is a huge responsibility.

Nova said:
Everyone in the house has to agree to getting a dog and caring for it. A pet is a huge responsibility.

Exactly. Dogs need a lot of care, love, and commitment. It’s important that the whole family is ready for the responsibility.

How old are you, and do you have a job? Can you afford the dog’s medical expenses, food, and other supplies? Who is going to take care of the dog when you are away or busy with school? If you’re not ready to handle these responsibilities, you should wait until you’re older and more independent.

As a lifelong dog lover, I totally get wanting a dog. But, dogs require commitment from everyone in the household.

To show you’re serious, try this:

  1. Research dogs, their needs, and typical expenses.
  2. Prove you’re ready by taking on more chores—clean up around the house, go for walks to show you’re prepared to walk the dog regularly, and help out with yard work to show you’re ready to pick up after the dog.
  3. Volunteer at a local animal shelter to learn more about dog care.

After six months, calmly ask your parents again and see if they’re more open to the idea. Keep in mind, pugs can have a lot of health problems, so you might want to consider a breed that’s easier for a first-time owner.

@Vern
This is great advice! My niece and nephew did the same thing—they made a whole presentation on why they should get a puppy. After doing all the research and proving their commitment, they finally got a dog, and it worked out well.