I’m really struggling right now. My mom has decided to put down our family dog, and I can’t wrap my head around it. He’s been there for me through so much. He’s not super old and he’s healthy—still sprints and plays like a puppy. But ever since our cat ran away, he’s changed. He and the cat were so close, and now he’s aggressive towards anyone new. He’s bitten a few friends and family, but no one seriously. He’s been on fluoxetine for years, and the vet says euthanasia is the only option. I’m arguing that we could just crate him when strangers come over, but my mom insists on this decision. I only have a month left with him, and I’m terrified of losing him. I just want him to be there for me as I grow up. I don’t know what I’m hoping to achieve by sharing this, but it’s all so fresh and painful. He’s only 7.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s heartbreaking to lose a pet, especially one who’s been there for you through everything. Have you tried talking to your vet about other options?
That’s such a tough situation. I understand your mom’s concerns, but it sounds like you really love him. Maybe you can find a middle ground?
It’s clear how much he means to you. If he’s still happy most of the time, maybe there’s a way to work with your vet for more help instead of euthanasia.
I can’t imagine how hard this is for you. Maybe reach out to a dog behaviorist? They might have some ideas to help manage his aggression without resorting to euthanasia.
I went through something similar with my dog. It’s so hard to let go. Just know you’re not alone in feeling this way. Have you thought about creating a plan with your mom and vet?