I’ve noticed that my social anxiety is way easier to challenge when I have my cat sitting on my lap, lol. Somehow, the presence of a cat makes me express myself in ways I normally feel too scared to. Anyone else have this experience? Ugh, I wish I could take my cat with me on dates
Brave probably isn’t the right phrasing. I think ‘at ease’ or ‘comfortable’ better captures it for me. I let my guard down more, similar to having a few drinks socially. Studies show that animals, especially dogs and cats, help with anxiety among other things. You should totally take your cat on dates. What loser wouldn’t want a bonus companion? Unless the cat orders the most expensive meal on the menu…
Adulting is just easier with her by my side. I wish I could take her everywhere, but she’s kind of an introvert.
True about the first sentence. I’d be way less likely to chicken out of going to a social event if I had my cat with me. My cat makes it easier to deal with people
One of my dogs is in training for protection, and I feel very at ease, lol.
Yessssss exactly! 100%
I feel this way with my dog. If money was better, I would pay to train him to be better behaved in public. He would make a great emotional support animal if he wasn’t such a spaz around other people.
That’s how I feel about my cat. I’m not sure if cats can be trained as well as dogs, but there’s a reason people recommend getting a dog for those who struggle with dating and making friends. They’re a great way to connect with other dog lovers
Yes! Loved and secured. My little happy paws.